Thursday, February 11, 2010

Slut.



Slut?
Such a strong word for such a less than innocent person.
But since we're on the subject, what is the definition of slut?


1. A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous.
2. A woman prostitute.

Now, how would you define promiscuous?

1. Characterized by having sexual relations with a number of partners on a casual basis.

Right, now how many is too many?
1. After researching it seems that most people who starting having sex around the age of 16 until the point at which they are married have had anywhere from 4-50 sexual partners.
2. Well what If you've been in 15 committed relationships in your dating lifetime and have had sex with all of them, are you a slut?

Now that I've thrown out some definitions and a little bit of research, I'm going to delve into my sexual history, that of which you find so "slutty".

I lost my virginity at 16, like most teenage girls. Yes, like most I was persuaded by an un-deserving older guy. That relationship lasted 7 months, substantial enough to have sex without being "easy". After the termination of that relationship I kissed maybe a total of 3 other boys, one of which is my current boyfriend. I've been in a relationship with this man for 2 year, definitely enough time to have sex without being a "hussy". And let's face it, I'll probably spend the rest of my life with the wonderful man, and be his DEVOTED wife until the day I die.

Okay, so let's recap: Two, count 'em, two sexual partners in four years. No other sexual favors have been given to any other men besides these two. Yes, I did cheat on the first boyfriend, by kissing another guy, but in my defense he was having sex with several girls behind my back. Retaliation does not equal prostitution(see definition of slut).

Now, if you are saving yourself for marriage, more power to you, I applaud you. But do not judge me for not having the same beliefs, diversity is key to avoiding the mundane.

That is my rant. I am not a slut, nor will I ever be one. Do not let me find out you've said something about my sexual life again. Keep it to yourself.

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